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by Stephanie Eaton Harvie
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Dean of Students Phyllis McLeod retired after serving at the high school for 26 years.
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Hearts at Fuquay-Varina High School were heavy on Friday as students and staff said goodbye to their beloved Dean of Students Phyllis McLeod. McLeod retired after serving at the high school for 26 years.

McLeod has worked in the field of education for over three decades.

“I graduated from William Patterson College in Wayne, N.J., and received a BA in Middle School Education in English and Social Studies,” McLeod said. “From there I went straight to graduate school at Atlanta University in Atlanta, Ga., and received a MA in counseling. I received my Educational Specialist Sixth Year Certification from NC State University in 1993. I began teaching social studies in Scotch Plains, N.J., and have been in the field of education for 35 wonderful years,” McLeod said.

In her 35 years of education, McLeod has served as a middle school social studies teacher, a college counselor, a counselor for Fuquay-Varina Middle School and Fuquay-Varina High School, a director of an alternative center and Shaw University’s Director of Counseling.

McLeod came to serve as Fuquay-Varina’s advancement counselor in 1986. After serving in the position for several years McLeod changed positions.

“When the county created the position of Dean of Students in 1993, I was selected to be Fuquay-Varina High School’s first Dean of Students,” McLeod said. “I have happily served in this position for 19 years.”

McLeod said she witnessed a lot of accomplishments while working at Fuquay-Varina High School. She said one accomplishment was when the school received the honor of being called a School of Distinction. A personal accomplishment was when she achieved the National Board Teacher Certification the first year that it was offered to counselors in 2004.

However, she said the biggest accomplishment she felt was making a difference in the lives of students.

“By far the biggest accomplishment is that I had the opportunity to make a difference by helping to build a strong community one student and one family at a time.”

McLeod said she enjoyed working at the high school.

“I have had a fabulous 26 years at Fuquay-Varina High School! It has been my privilege to have had the opportunity to work with the students and their parents in our community.”

Although she looks forward to traveling, volunteering in the community and serving in her church, McLeod said her retirement will not be easy.

“This (retirement) is difficult because Fuquay-Varina High School is my home and my family. I will miss everything about it! I will miss the students, the staff, the ceremonies, traditions, the homecoming activities and graduations. I used to be one of the marshals in the homecoming parade when we used to process down Main Street. Memories are already flooding back.”

Those who worked with McLeod said her retirement will be felt throughout the high school.

Fuquay-Varina High School Principal Edward McFarland describes McLeod as a staff member who works hard to makes sure the job gets done.

“Mrs. McLeod had guided the Student Services department admirably during her tenure,” McFarland said. “Most recently the department received National Recognition and an award from the National Association of School Counselors for their outstanding work with students. Their plan and services delivery model is now being used as a model for other schools across the United States to follow.”

Fuquay-Varina High School Family and Consumer Sciences Teacher Karen Brown describes McLeod as a mentor, who was always willing to lend a helping hand and had a great sense of humor.

“Phyllis is the face of Fuquay-Varina High School,” Brown said. “Everywhere I go, people tell stories about how Phyllis has helped either them or their families through her altruistic gestures.”

Fuquay-Varina High School Marketing Education Teacher Mariam Elsayed Al-Yousuf concurs with Brown and describes McLeod as a mentor.

“As a new teacher a few years ago, Ms. McLeod helped welcome me in so many ways,” Elsayed Al-Yousuf said. “She is so involved in so many aspects of the school from the honor society that she advises, National Achievers, to the Advisory Board she hosts every semester with community members and more. When you work with Ms. McLeod on anything, you can’t help but to feel so included and part of the school’s culture because of how helpful and resourceful she is. She is a wealth of information and is so encouraging. She will definitely be missed at FVHS!”

Although McLeod will be gone, Brown said McLeod’s legacy will still be felt at the high school.

“She (McLeod) can take pride in the knowledge that she has helped to pilot her department and establish a solid foundation for Fuquay-Varina High School Student Services to continue to be a strong support for students” Brown said. “Thanks to her hard work over the years, we have the best Student Services Department in Wake County!”

McFarland said McLeod played such a large part in so many aspects of the school that she will be greatly missed.

“I have always considered Mrs. McLeod an excellent educator and true friend of the community,” McFarland said. “She supports our students, staff, parents, and others in multiple facets. She organizes events, sponsors clubs, plans for student graduation, and has always been there to do what needs to be done to make our students the most successful. She is a professional colleague and personal friend. She is a first class act. We will miss her greatly!”

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I have always said I believe the key to living frugally is by living simply. I am a firm believer in constantly purging and not living with a lot of stuff.

I believe when you are not weighed down with stuff, you know what you have and it makes you think before you bring items back into the home.

However, you cannot live a frugal and simple lifestyle by yourself.

It truly takes a family effort. With my children at home for the summer, I have stepped up their responsibilities when it comes to cleaning and purging. While my children have probably had dreams of lounging by the pool all summer, our family has adopted the policy of “work first, then play.”

My children have been given a responsibility chart of daily chores. I have the chart hanging on a back door so there is never a question as to what the day responsibilities include. Each day brings a new set of different chores. Chores include cleaning and organizing their rooms, picking up in their play area, dusting, helping with laundry, cleaning and organizing items throughout the house, washing dishes and collecting trash.

Having two children with a wide age gap between them, their responsibilities vary. The chores not only keep the house clean, but help cut down on the clutter.

By having a clean home and having my children involved it has taught them the value of hard work and really helped them have a voice in the purging process. The more “stuff” they keep, the more they have to clean. My children, ages 11 and 4, have already learned the importance of living with less stuff.

Do you have frugal ideas? E-mail them to localnews2005@yahoo.com.

Stephanie Eaton Harvie has been working professionally in the world of journalism since 1997. She began her career in Dunn, N.C., and served as the editor of the Angier Independent. She has worked for the Fuquay-Varina Independent, Holly Springs Sun, Garner News, Cleveland Post and Apex Herald since 2005. She has learned tips on frugality by being a stay-at-home mom to her two children.

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How to spot and prevent senior financial fraud
by Jim Miller
Jun 19, 2013 | 3643 views | 0 0 comments | 17 17 recommendations | email to a friend | print

Dear Savvy Senior,

Can you offer some tips on protecting seniors from financial scams? My neighbor’s elderly mother was recently swindled out of $10,000 and I want to make sure my own mother is protected.

Troubled Daughter

Dear Troubled,

Financial scams that target the elderly continue to be a big problem in the U.S. In fact, it’s estimated that some 5 million Americans over age 60 are scammed out of roughly 3 billion every year. Here are some tips that can help you spot a scam, and what you can do to protect your mom.

Scam Watching

Spotting a scam or a con artist is not always easy to do. They range from shady financial advisers to slick-talking telemarketers to professional caregivers and relatives who steal from the very people they’re supposed to be looking after.

The most common scams targeting seniors today come in the form of free-lunch seminars selling dubious financial products, tricky/high-pressure telemarketing calls, and endless junk mail peddling free vacation packages, sweepstakes, phony charity fundraisers and more. And, of course, there’s the ongoing problem of identity theft, Medicare fraud, door-to-door scams, credit card theft, and Internet and email scams.

The best way to spot a scam is to help your mom manage her finances, or at least monitor her accounts. Reviewing her financial statements each month can alert you to questionable checks, credit card charges or large withdrawals.

If, however, she doesn’t want you looking at her financial records, there are other clues. For example: Is she getting a lot of junk mail for contests, free trips, and sweepstakes? Is she receiving calls from strangers offering awards or moneymaking deals? Also notice if her spending habits have changed, if she has complained about being short of money lately, or has suddenly become secretive or defensive about her finances. All these may be signs of trouble.

Protect Your Parent

The most effective way to help protect your mom is to alert her to the different kind of scams out there. The easiest way to do this is by visiting the Financial Fraud Enforcement Task Force website (stopfraud.gov – click on “Protect Yourself”), where you can get a rundown on the different types of scams making the rounds these days. The Better Business Bureau Scam Stopper site at bbb.org/scam-stopper is another good resource.

If your mom doesn’t have access to a computer, print out the materials yourself and use them to start a conversation.

It’s also a good idea to keep close tabs on your mom’s social circle. Has she acquired any questionable new friends lately, or is she seeing anyone who’s giving her advice, financial or otherwise?

Some other tips to protect her include reminding her to never give out her Social Security number or financial information unless she initiated the contact and knows the institution.

Also, see if your mom would be willing to let you sort her mail before she opens it so you can weed out the junk. To reduce the junk mail and/or email she gets, use the Direct Marketing Association consumer opt-out service at dmachoice.org. And to stop credit card and insurance offers, use the Consumer Credit Reporting Industry opt-out service at optoutprescreen.com or call 888-567-8688 – they will ask for your mom’s Social Security number and date of birth.

Also, register your mom’s home and cell phone numbers on the National Do Not Call Registry (donotcall.gov, 888-382-1222) to reduce telemarketers. And help her get a free copy of her credit report at annualcreditreport.com to make sure she isn’t a victim of identity theft.

Report It

If you suspect your mom has gotten scammed report it to your state securities regulator’s office (see nasaa.org for contact information), or your state’s Adult Protective Services agency (call 800-677-1116 for contact information) that investigates reports of elderly financial abuse.

Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit SavvySenior.org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author of “The Savvy Senior” book.

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Mr. and Mrs. Charles Jackson of Fuquay-Varina proudly announce the engagement of their son, Corey Edward Jackson, to Emily Elizabeth Hester of Pontotoc, Miss. The bride-elect is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Herb Hester, Jr. of Pontotoc, Miss.

The bridegroom-elect is a 2009 honors graduate of Fuquay-Varina High School and a current student at Lenoir-Rhyne University, where he is studying history.

Miss Hester is a 2006 special honors graduate of Pontotoc High School and a 2010 Magna Cum Laude graduate of Lenoir-Rhyne University with a Bachelor’s Degree in religious studies. She is a 2013 graduate of Lenoir-Rhyne University with a Master of Arts in counseling.

The couple will wed June 22, 2013 at Castle Hill in Oxford, Miss., at 7:30 p.m.

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by Stephanie Eaton Harvie
Jun 19, 2013 | 4871 views | 0 0 comments | 14 14 recommendations | email to a friend | print

I have always said I believe the key to living frugally is by living simply. I am a firm believer in constantly purging and not living with a lot of stuff.

I believe when you are not weighed down with stuff, you know what you have and it makes you think before you bring items back into the home.

However, you cannot live a frugal and simple lifestyle by yourself.

It truly takes a family effort. With my children at home for the summer, I have stepped up their responsibilities when it comes to cleaning and purging. While my children have probably had dreams of lounging by the pool all summer, our family has adopted the policy of “work first, then play.”

My children have been given a responsibility chart of daily chores. I have the chart hanging on a back door so there is never a question as to what the day responsibilities include. Each day brings a new set of different chores. Chores include cleaning and organizing their rooms, picking up in their play area, dusting, helping with laundry, cleaning and organizing items throughout the house, washing dishes and collecting trash.

Having two children with a wide age gap between them, their responsibilities vary. The chores not only keep the house clean, but help cut down on the clutter.

By having a clean home and having my children involved it has taught them the value of hard work and really helped them have a voice in the purging process. The more “stuff” they keep, the more they have to clean. My children, ages 11 and 4, have already learned the importance of living with less stuff.

Do you have frugal ideas? E-mail them to localnews2005@yahoo.com.

Stephanie Eaton Harvie has been working professionally in the world of journalism since 1997. She began her career in Dunn, N.C., and served as the editor of the Angier Independent. She has worked for the Fuquay-Varina Independent, Holly Springs Sun, Garner News, Cleveland Post and Apex Herald since 2005. She has learned tips on frugality by being a stay-at-home mom to her two children.

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How to spot and prevent senior financial fraud
by Jim Miller
Jun 19, 2013 | 3643 views | 0 0 comments | 17 17 recommendations | email to a friend | print

Dear Savvy Senior,

Can you offer some tips on protecting seniors from financial scams? My neighbor’s elderly mother was recently swindled out of $10,000 and I want to make sure my own mother is protected.

Troubled Daughter

Dear Troubled,

Financial scams that target the elderly continue to be a big problem in the U.S. In fact, it’s estimated that some 5 million Americans over age 60 are scammed out of roughly 3 billion every year. Here are some tips that can help you spot a scam, and what you can do to protect your mom.

Scam Watching

Spotting a scam or a con artist is not always easy to do. They range from shady financial advisers to slick-talking telemarketers to professional caregivers and relatives who steal from the very people they’re supposed to be looking after.

The most common scams targeting seniors today come in the form of free-lunch seminars selling dubious financial products, tricky/high-pressure telemarketing calls, and endless junk mail peddling free vacation packages, sweepstakes, phony charity fundraisers and more. And, of course, there’s the ongoing problem of identity theft, Medicare fraud, door-to-door scams, credit card theft, and Internet and email scams.

The best way to spot a scam is to help your mom manage her finances, or at least monitor her accounts. Reviewing her financial statements each month can alert you to questionable checks, credit card charges or large withdrawals.

If, however, she doesn’t want you looking at her financial records, there are other clues. For example: Is she getting a lot of junk mail for contests, free trips, and sweepstakes? Is she receiving calls from strangers offering awards or moneymaking deals? Also notice if her spending habits have changed, if she has complained about being short of money lately, or has suddenly become secretive or defensive about her finances. All these may be signs of trouble.

Protect Your Parent

The most effective way to help protect your mom is to alert her to the different kind of scams out there. The easiest way to do this is by visiting the Financial Fraud Enforcement Task Force website (stopfraud.gov – click on “Protect Yourself”), where you can get a rundown on the different types of scams making the rounds these days. The Better Business Bureau Scam Stopper site at bbb.org/scam-stopper is another good resource.

If your mom doesn’t have access to a computer, print out the materials yourself and use them to start a conversation.

It’s also a good idea to keep close tabs on your mom’s social circle. Has she acquired any questionable new friends lately, or is she seeing anyone who’s giving her advice, financial or otherwise?

Some other tips to protect her include reminding her to never give out her Social Security number or financial information unless she initiated the contact and knows the institution.

Also, see if your mom would be willing to let you sort her mail before she opens it so you can weed out the junk. To reduce the junk mail and/or email she gets, use the Direct Marketing Association consumer opt-out service at dmachoice.org. And to stop credit card and insurance offers, use the Consumer Credit Reporting Industry opt-out service at optoutprescreen.com or call 888-567-8688 – they will ask for your mom’s Social Security number and date of birth.

Also, register your mom’s home and cell phone numbers on the National Do Not Call Registry (donotcall.gov, 888-382-1222) to reduce telemarketers. And help her get a free copy of her credit report at annualcreditreport.com to make sure she isn’t a victim of identity theft.

Report It

If you suspect your mom has gotten scammed report it to your state securities regulator’s office (see nasaa.org for contact information), or your state’s Adult Protective Services agency (call 800-677-1116 for contact information) that investigates reports of elderly financial abuse.

Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit SavvySenior.org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author of “The Savvy Senior” book.

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Mr. and Mrs. Charles Jackson of Fuquay-Varina proudly announce the engagement of their son, Corey Edward Jackson, to Emily Elizabeth Hester of Pontotoc, Miss. The bride-elect is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Herb Hester, Jr. of Pontotoc, Miss.

The bridegroom-elect is a 2009 honors graduate of Fuquay-Varina High School and a current student at Lenoir-Rhyne University, where he is studying history.

Miss Hester is a 2006 special honors graduate of Pontotoc High School and a 2010 Magna Cum Laude graduate of Lenoir-Rhyne University with a Bachelor’s Degree in religious studies. She is a 2013 graduate of Lenoir-Rhyne University with a Master of Arts in counseling.

The couple will wed June 22, 2013 at Castle Hill in Oxford, Miss., at 7:30 p.m.

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Frugal Family: It takes a family to save some money
by Stephanie Eaton Harvie
Jun 19, 2013 | 4871 views | 0 0 comments | 14 14 recommendations | email to a friend | print

I have always said I believe the key to living frugally is by living simply. I am a firm believer in constantly purging and not living with a lot of stuff.

I believe when you are not weighed down with stuff, you know what you have and it makes you think before you bring items back into the home.

However, you cannot live a frugal and simple lifestyle by yourself.

It truly takes a family effort. With my children at home for the summer, I have stepped up their responsibilities when it comes to cleaning and purging. While my children have probably had dreams of lounging by the pool all summer, our family has adopted the policy of “work first, then play.”

My children have been given a responsibility chart of daily chores. I have the chart hanging on a back door so there is never a question as to what the day responsibilities include. Each day brings a new set of different chores. Chores include cleaning and organizing their rooms, picking up in their play area, dusting, helping with laundry, cleaning and organizing items throughout the house, washing dishes and collecting trash.

Having two children with a wide age gap between them, their responsibilities vary. The chores not only keep the house clean, but help cut down on the clutter.

By having a clean home and having my children involved it has taught them the value of hard work and really helped them have a voice in the purging process. The more “stuff” they keep, the more they have to clean. My children, ages 11 and 4, have already learned the importance of living with less stuff.

Do you have frugal ideas? E-mail them to localnews2005@yahoo.com.

Stephanie Eaton Harvie has been working professionally in the world of journalism since 1997. She began her career in Dunn, N.C., and served as the editor of the Angier Independent. She has worked for the Fuquay-Varina Independent, Holly Springs Sun, Garner News, Cleveland Post and Apex Herald since 2005. She has learned tips on frugality by being a stay-at-home mom to her two children.

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How to spot and prevent senior financial fraud
by Jim Miller
Jun 19, 2013 | 3643 views | 0 0 comments | 17 17 recommendations | email to a friend | print

Dear Savvy Senior,

Can you offer some tips on protecting seniors from financial scams? My neighbor’s elderly mother was recently swindled out of $10,000 and I want to make sure my own mother is protected.

Troubled Daughter

Dear Troubled,

Financial scams that target the elderly continue to be a big problem in the U.S. In fact, it’s estimated that some 5 million Americans over age 60 are scammed out of roughly 3 billion every year. Here are some tips that can help you spot a scam, and what you can do to protect your mom.

Scam Watching

Spotting a scam or a con artist is not always easy to do. They range from shady financial advisers to slick-talking telemarketers to professional caregivers and relatives who steal from the very people they’re supposed to be looking after.

The most common scams targeting seniors today come in the form of free-lunch seminars selling dubious financial products, tricky/high-pressure telemarketing calls, and endless junk mail peddling free vacation packages, sweepstakes, phony charity fundraisers and more. And, of course, there’s the ongoing problem of identity theft, Medicare fraud, door-to-door scams, credit card theft, and Internet and email scams.

The best way to spot a scam is to help your mom manage her finances, or at least monitor her accounts. Reviewing her financial statements each month can alert you to questionable checks, credit card charges or large withdrawals.

If, however, she doesn’t want you looking at her financial records, there are other clues. For example: Is she getting a lot of junk mail for contests, free trips, and sweepstakes? Is she receiving calls from strangers offering awards or moneymaking deals? Also notice if her spending habits have changed, if she has complained about being short of money lately, or has suddenly become secretive or defensive about her finances. All these may be signs of trouble.

Protect Your Parent

The most effective way to help protect your mom is to alert her to the different kind of scams out there. The easiest way to do this is by visiting the Financial Fraud Enforcement Task Force website (stopfraud.gov – click on “Protect Yourself”), where you can get a rundown on the different types of scams making the rounds these days. The Better Business Bureau Scam Stopper site at bbb.org/scam-stopper is another good resource.

If your mom doesn’t have access to a computer, print out the materials yourself and use them to start a conversation.

It’s also a good idea to keep close tabs on your mom’s social circle. Has she acquired any questionable new friends lately, or is she seeing anyone who’s giving her advice, financial or otherwise?

Some other tips to protect her include reminding her to never give out her Social Security number or financial information unless she initiated the contact and knows the institution.

Also, see if your mom would be willing to let you sort her mail before she opens it so you can weed out the junk. To reduce the junk mail and/or email she gets, use the Direct Marketing Association consumer opt-out service at dmachoice.org. And to stop credit card and insurance offers, use the Consumer Credit Reporting Industry opt-out service at optoutprescreen.com or call 888-567-8688 – they will ask for your mom’s Social Security number and date of birth.

Also, register your mom’s home and cell phone numbers on the National Do Not Call Registry (donotcall.gov, 888-382-1222) to reduce telemarketers. And help her get a free copy of her credit report at annualcreditreport.com to make sure she isn’t a victim of identity theft.

Report It

If you suspect your mom has gotten scammed report it to your state securities regulator’s office (see nasaa.org for contact information), or your state’s Adult Protective Services agency (call 800-677-1116 for contact information) that investigates reports of elderly financial abuse.

Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit SavvySenior.org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author of “The Savvy Senior” book.

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Mr. and Mrs. Charles Jackson of Fuquay-Varina proudly announce the engagement of their son, Corey Edward Jackson, to Emily Elizabeth Hester of Pontotoc, Miss. The bride-elect is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Herb Hester, Jr. of Pontotoc, Miss.

The bridegroom-elect is a 2009 honors graduate of Fuquay-Varina High School and a current student at Lenoir-Rhyne University, where he is studying history.

Miss Hester is a 2006 special honors graduate of Pontotoc High School and a 2010 Magna Cum Laude graduate of Lenoir-Rhyne University with a Bachelor’s Degree in religious studies. She is a 2013 graduate of Lenoir-Rhyne University with a Master of Arts in counseling.

The couple will wed June 22, 2013 at Castle Hill in Oxford, Miss., at 7:30 p.m.

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Frugal Family: It takes a family to save some money
by Stephanie Eaton Harvie
Jun 19, 2013 | 4871 views | 0 0 comments | 14 14 recommendations | email to a friend | print

I have always said I believe the key to living frugally is by living simply. I am a firm believer in constantly purging and not living with a lot of stuff.

I believe when you are not weighed down with stuff, you know what you have and it makes you think before you bring items back into the home.

However, you cannot live a frugal and simple lifestyle by yourself.

It truly takes a family effort. With my children at home for the summer, I have stepped up their responsibilities when it comes to cleaning and purging. While my children have probably had dreams of lounging by the pool all summer, our family has adopted the policy of “work first, then play.”

My children have been given a responsibility chart of daily chores. I have the chart hanging on a back door so there is never a question as to what the day responsibilities include. Each day brings a new set of different chores. Chores include cleaning and organizing their rooms, picking up in their play area, dusting, helping with laundry, cleaning and organizing items throughout the house, washing dishes and collecting trash.

Having two children with a wide age gap between them, their responsibilities vary. The chores not only keep the house clean, but help cut down on the clutter.

By having a clean home and having my children involved it has taught them the value of hard work and really helped them have a voice in the purging process. The more “stuff” they keep, the more they have to clean. My children, ages 11 and 4, have already learned the importance of living with less stuff.

Do you have frugal ideas? E-mail them to localnews2005@yahoo.com.

Stephanie Eaton Harvie has been working professionally in the world of journalism since 1997. She began her career in Dunn, N.C., and served as the editor of the Angier Independent. She has worked for the Fuquay-Varina Independent, Holly Springs Sun, Garner News, Cleveland Post and Apex Herald since 2005. She has learned tips on frugality by being a stay-at-home mom to her two children.

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How to spot and prevent senior financial fraud
by Jim Miller
Jun 19, 2013 | 3643 views | 0 0 comments | 17 17 recommendations | email to a friend | print

Dear Savvy Senior,

Can you offer some tips on protecting seniors from financial scams? My neighbor’s elderly mother was recently swindled out of $10,000 and I want to make sure my own mother is protected.

Troubled Daughter

Dear Troubled,

Financial scams that target the elderly continue to be a big problem in the U.S. In fact, it’s estimated that some 5 million Americans over age 60 are scammed out of roughly 3 billion every year. Here are some tips that can help you spot a scam, and what you can do to protect your mom.

Scam Watching

Spotting a scam or a con artist is not always easy to do. They range from shady financial advisers to slick-talking telemarketers to professional caregivers and relatives who steal from the very people they’re supposed to be looking after.

The most common scams targeting seniors today come in the form of free-lunch seminars selling dubious financial products, tricky/high-pressure telemarketing calls, and endless junk mail peddling free vacation packages, sweepstakes, phony charity fundraisers and more. And, of course, there’s the ongoing problem of identity theft, Medicare fraud, door-to-door scams, credit card theft, and Internet and email scams.

The best way to spot a scam is to help your mom manage her finances, or at least monitor her accounts. Reviewing her financial statements each month can alert you to questionable checks, credit card charges or large withdrawals.

If, however, she doesn’t want you looking at her financial records, there are other clues. For example: Is she getting a lot of junk mail for contests, free trips, and sweepstakes? Is she receiving calls from strangers offering awards or moneymaking deals? Also notice if her spending habits have changed, if she has complained about being short of money lately, or has suddenly become secretive or defensive about her finances. All these may be signs of trouble.

Protect Your Parent

The most effective way to help protect your mom is to alert her to the different kind of scams out there. The easiest way to do this is by visiting the Financial Fraud Enforcement Task Force website (stopfraud.gov – click on “Protect Yourself”), where you can get a rundown on the different types of scams making the rounds these days. The Better Business Bureau Scam Stopper site at bbb.org/scam-stopper is another good resource.

If your mom doesn’t have access to a computer, print out the materials yourself and use them to start a conversation.

It’s also a good idea to keep close tabs on your mom’s social circle. Has she acquired any questionable new friends lately, or is she seeing anyone who’s giving her advice, financial or otherwise?

Some other tips to protect her include reminding her to never give out her Social Security number or financial information unless she initiated the contact and knows the institution.

Also, see if your mom would be willing to let you sort her mail before she opens it so you can weed out the junk. To reduce the junk mail and/or email she gets, use the Direct Marketing Association consumer opt-out service at dmachoice.org. And to stop credit card and insurance offers, use the Consumer Credit Reporting Industry opt-out service at optoutprescreen.com or call 888-567-8688 – they will ask for your mom’s Social Security number and date of birth.

Also, register your mom’s home and cell phone numbers on the National Do Not Call Registry (donotcall.gov, 888-382-1222) to reduce telemarketers. And help her get a free copy of her credit report at annualcreditreport.com to make sure she isn’t a victim of identity theft.

Report It

If you suspect your mom has gotten scammed report it to your state securities regulator’s office (see nasaa.org for contact information), or your state’s Adult Protective Services agency (call 800-677-1116 for contact information) that investigates reports of elderly financial abuse.

Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit SavvySenior.org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author of “The Savvy Senior” book.

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Mr. and Mrs. Charles Jackson of Fuquay-Varina proudly announce the engagement of their son, Corey Edward Jackson, to Emily Elizabeth Hester of Pontotoc, Miss. The bride-elect is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Herb Hester, Jr. of Pontotoc, Miss.

The bridegroom-elect is a 2009 honors graduate of Fuquay-Varina High School and a current student at Lenoir-Rhyne University, where he is studying history.

Miss Hester is a 2006 special honors graduate of Pontotoc High School and a 2010 Magna Cum Laude graduate of Lenoir-Rhyne University with a Bachelor’s Degree in religious studies. She is a 2013 graduate of Lenoir-Rhyne University with a Master of Arts in counseling.

The couple will wed June 22, 2013 at Castle Hill in Oxford, Miss., at 7:30 p.m.

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I have always said I believe the key to living frugally is by living simply. I am a firm believer in constantly purging and not living with a lot of stuff.

I believe when you are not weighed down with stuff, you know what you have and it makes you think before you bring items back into the home.

However, you cannot live a frugal and simple lifestyle by yourself.

It truly takes a family effort. With my children at home for the summer, I have stepped up their responsibilities when it comes to cleaning and purging. While my children have probably had dreams of lounging by the pool all summer, our family has adopted the policy of “work first, then play.”

My children have been given a responsibility chart of daily chores. I have the chart hanging on a back door so there is never a question as to what the day responsibilities include. Each day brings a new set of different chores. Chores include cleaning and organizing their rooms, picking up in their play area, dusting, helping with laundry, cleaning and organizing items throughout the house, washing dishes and collecting trash.

Having two children with a wide age gap between them, their responsibilities vary. The chores not only keep the house clean, but help cut down on the clutter.

By having a clean home and having my children involved it has taught them the value of hard work and really helped them have a voice in the purging process. The more “stuff” they keep, the more they have to clean. My children, ages 11 and 4, have already learned the importance of living with less stuff.

Do you have frugal ideas? E-mail them to localnews2005@yahoo.com.

Stephanie Eaton Harvie has been working professionally in the world of journalism since 1997. She began her career in Dunn, N.C., and served as the editor of the Angier Independent. She has worked for the Fuquay-Varina Independent, Holly Springs Sun, Garner News, Cleveland Post and Apex Herald since 2005. She has learned tips on frugality by being a stay-at-home mom to her two children.

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How to spot and prevent senior financial fraud
by Jim Miller
Jun 19, 2013 | 3643 views | 0 0 comments | 17 17 recommendations | email to a friend | print

Dear Savvy Senior,

Can you offer some tips on protecting seniors from financial scams? My neighbor’s elderly mother was recently swindled out of $10,000 and I want to make sure my own mother is protected.

Troubled Daughter

Dear Troubled,

Financial scams that target the elderly continue to be a big problem in the U.S. In fact, it’s estimated that some 5 million Americans over age 60 are scammed out of roughly 3 billion every year. Here are some tips that can help you spot a scam, and what you can do to protect your mom.

Scam Watching

Spotting a scam or a con artist is not always easy to do. They range from shady financial advisers to slick-talking telemarketers to professional caregivers and relatives who steal from the very people they’re supposed to be looking after.

The most common scams targeting seniors today come in the form of free-lunch seminars selling dubious financial products, tricky/high-pressure telemarketing calls, and endless junk mail peddling free vacation packages, sweepstakes, phony charity fundraisers and more. And, of course, there’s the ongoing problem of identity theft, Medicare fraud, door-to-door scams, credit card theft, and Internet and email scams.

The best way to spot a scam is to help your mom manage her finances, or at least monitor her accounts. Reviewing her financial statements each month can alert you to questionable checks, credit card charges or large withdrawals.

If, however, she doesn’t want you looking at her financial records, there are other clues. For example: Is she getting a lot of junk mail for contests, free trips, and sweepstakes? Is she receiving calls from strangers offering awards or moneymaking deals? Also notice if her spending habits have changed, if she has complained about being short of money lately, or has suddenly become secretive or defensive about her finances. All these may be signs of trouble.

Protect Your Parent

The most effective way to help protect your mom is to alert her to the different kind of scams out there. The easiest way to do this is by visiting the Financial Fraud Enforcement Task Force website (stopfraud.gov – click on “Protect Yourself”), where you can get a rundown on the different types of scams making the rounds these days. The Better Business Bureau Scam Stopper site at bbb.org/scam-stopper is another good resource.

If your mom doesn’t have access to a computer, print out the materials yourself and use them to start a conversation.

It’s also a good idea to keep close tabs on your mom’s social circle. Has she acquired any questionable new friends lately, or is she seeing anyone who’s giving her advice, financial or otherwise?

Some other tips to protect her include reminding her to never give out her Social Security number or financial information unless she initiated the contact and knows the institution.

Also, see if your mom would be willing to let you sort her mail before she opens it so you can weed out the junk. To reduce the junk mail and/or email she gets, use the Direct Marketing Association consumer opt-out service at dmachoice.org. And to stop credit card and insurance offers, use the Consumer Credit Reporting Industry opt-out service at optoutprescreen.com or call 888-567-8688 – they will ask for your mom’s Social Security number and date of birth.

Also, register your mom’s home and cell phone numbers on the National Do Not Call Registry (donotcall.gov, 888-382-1222) to reduce telemarketers. And help her get a free copy of her credit report at annualcreditreport.com to make sure she isn’t a victim of identity theft.

Report It

If you suspect your mom has gotten scammed report it to your state securities regulator’s office (see nasaa.org for contact information), or your state’s Adult Protective Services agency (call 800-677-1116 for contact information) that investigates reports of elderly financial abuse.

Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit SavvySenior.org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author of “The Savvy Senior” book.

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Mr. and Mrs. Charles Jackson of Fuquay-Varina proudly announce the engagement of their son, Corey Edward Jackson, to Emily Elizabeth Hester of Pontotoc, Miss. The bride-elect is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Herb Hester, Jr. of Pontotoc, Miss.

The bridegroom-elect is a 2009 honors graduate of Fuquay-Varina High School and a current student at Lenoir-Rhyne University, where he is studying history.

Miss Hester is a 2006 special honors graduate of Pontotoc High School and a 2010 Magna Cum Laude graduate of Lenoir-Rhyne University with a Bachelor’s Degree in religious studies. She is a 2013 graduate of Lenoir-Rhyne University with a Master of Arts in counseling.

The couple will wed June 22, 2013 at Castle Hill in Oxford, Miss., at 7:30 p.m.

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I have always said I believe the key to living frugally is by living simply. I am a firm believer in constantly purging and not living with a lot of stuff.

I believe when you are not weighed down with stuff, you know what you have and it makes you think before you bring items back into the home.

However, you cannot live a frugal and simple lifestyle by yourself.

It truly takes a family effort. With my children at home for the summer, I have stepped up their responsibilities when it comes to cleaning and purging. While my children have probably had dreams of lounging by the pool all summer, our family has adopted the policy of “work first, then play.”

My children have been given a responsibility chart of daily chores. I have the chart hanging on a back door so there is never a question as to what the day responsibilities include. Each day brings a new set of different chores. Chores include cleaning and organizing their rooms, picking up in their play area, dusting, helping with laundry, cleaning and organizing items throughout the house, washing dishes and collecting trash.

Having two children with a wide age gap between them, their responsibilities vary. The chores not only keep the house clean, but help cut down on the clutter.

By having a clean home and having my children involved it has taught them the value of hard work and really helped them have a voice in the purging process. The more “stuff” they keep, the more they have to clean. My children, ages 11 and 4, have already learned the importance of living with less stuff.

Do you have frugal ideas? E-mail them to localnews2005@yahoo.com.

Stephanie Eaton Harvie has been working professionally in the world of journalism since 1997. She began her career in Dunn, N.C., and served as the editor of the Angier Independent. She has worked for the Fuquay-Varina Independent, Holly Springs Sun, Garner News, Cleveland Post and Apex Herald since 2005. She has learned tips on frugality by being a stay-at-home mom to her two children.

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How to spot and prevent senior financial fraud
by Jim Miller
Jun 19, 2013 | 3643 views | 0 0 comments | 17 17 recommendations | email to a friend | print

Dear Savvy Senior,

Can you offer some tips on protecting seniors from financial scams? My neighbor’s elderly mother was recently swindled out of $10,000 and I want to make sure my own mother is protected.

Troubled Daughter

Dear Troubled,

Financial scams that target the elderly continue to be a big problem in the U.S. In fact, it’s estimated that some 5 million Americans over age 60 are scammed out of roughly 3 billion every year. Here are some tips that can help you spot a scam, and what you can do to protect your mom.

Scam Watching

Spotting a scam or a con artist is not always easy to do. They range from shady financial advisers to slick-talking telemarketers to professional caregivers and relatives who steal from the very people they’re supposed to be looking after.

The most common scams targeting seniors today come in the form of free-lunch seminars selling dubious financial products, tricky/high-pressure telemarketing calls, and endless junk mail peddling free vacation packages, sweepstakes, phony charity fundraisers and more. And, of course, there’s the ongoing problem of identity theft, Medicare fraud, door-to-door scams, credit card theft, and Internet and email scams.

The best way to spot a scam is to help your mom manage her finances, or at least monitor her accounts. Reviewing her financial statements each month can alert you to questionable checks, credit card charges or large withdrawals.

If, however, she doesn’t want you looking at her financial records, there are other clues. For example: Is she getting a lot of junk mail for contests, free trips, and sweepstakes? Is she receiving calls from strangers offering awards or moneymaking deals? Also notice if her spending habits have changed, if she has complained about being short of money lately, or has suddenly become secretive or defensive about her finances. All these may be signs of trouble.

Protect Your Parent

The most effective way to help protect your mom is to alert her to the different kind of scams out there. The easiest way to do this is by visiting the Financial Fraud Enforcement Task Force website (stopfraud.gov – click on “Protect Yourself”), where you can get a rundown on the different types of scams making the rounds these days. The Better Business Bureau Scam Stopper site at bbb.org/scam-stopper is another good resource.

If your mom doesn’t have access to a computer, print out the materials yourself and use them to start a conversation.

It’s also a good idea to keep close tabs on your mom’s social circle. Has she acquired any questionable new friends lately, or is she seeing anyone who’s giving her advice, financial or otherwise?

Some other tips to protect her include reminding her to never give out her Social Security number or financial information unless she initiated the contact and knows the institution.

Also, see if your mom would be willing to let you sort her mail before she opens it so you can weed out the junk. To reduce the junk mail and/or email she gets, use the Direct Marketing Association consumer opt-out service at dmachoice.org. And to stop credit card and insurance offers, use the Consumer Credit Reporting Industry opt-out service at optoutprescreen.com or call 888-567-8688 – they will ask for your mom’s Social Security number and date of birth.

Also, register your mom’s home and cell phone numbers on the National Do Not Call Registry (donotcall.gov, 888-382-1222) to reduce telemarketers. And help her get a free copy of her credit report at annualcreditreport.com to make sure she isn’t a victim of identity theft.

Report It

If you suspect your mom has gotten scammed report it to your state securities regulator’s office (see nasaa.org for contact information), or your state’s Adult Protective Services agency (call 800-677-1116 for contact information) that investigates reports of elderly financial abuse.

Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit SavvySenior.org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author of “The Savvy Senior” book.

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Mr. and Mrs. Charles Jackson of Fuquay-Varina proudly announce the engagement of their son, Corey Edward Jackson, to Emily Elizabeth Hester of Pontotoc, Miss. The bride-elect is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Herb Hester, Jr. of Pontotoc, Miss.

The bridegroom-elect is a 2009 honors graduate of Fuquay-Varina High School and a current student at Lenoir-Rhyne University, where he is studying history.

Miss Hester is a 2006 special honors graduate of Pontotoc High School and a 2010 Magna Cum Laude graduate of Lenoir-Rhyne University with a Bachelor’s Degree in religious studies. She is a 2013 graduate of Lenoir-Rhyne University with a Master of Arts in counseling.

The couple will wed June 22, 2013 at Castle Hill in Oxford, Miss., at 7:30 p.m.

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Frugal Family: It takes a family to save some money
by Stephanie Eaton Harvie
Jun 19, 2013 | 4871 views | 0 0 comments | 14 14 recommendations | email to a friend | print

I have always said I believe the key to living frugally is by living simply. I am a firm believer in constantly purging and not living with a lot of stuff.

I believe when you are not weighed down with stuff, you know what you have and it makes you think before you bring items back into the home.

However, you cannot live a frugal and simple lifestyle by yourself.

It truly takes a family effort. With my children at home for the summer, I have stepped up their responsibilities when it comes to cleaning and purging. While my children have probably had dreams of lounging by the pool all summer, our family has adopted the policy of “work first, then play.”

My children have been given a responsibility chart of daily chores. I have the chart hanging on a back door so there is never a question as to what the day responsibilities include. Each day brings a new set of different chores. Chores include cleaning and organizing their rooms, picking up in their play area, dusting, helping with laundry, cleaning and organizing items throughout the house, washing dishes and collecting trash.

Having two children with a wide age gap between them, their responsibilities vary. The chores not only keep the house clean, but help cut down on the clutter.

By having a clean home and having my children involved it has taught them the value of hard work and really helped them have a voice in the purging process. The more “stuff” they keep, the more they have to clean. My children, ages 11 and 4, have already learned the importance of living with less stuff.

Do you have frugal ideas? E-mail them to localnews2005@yahoo.com.

Stephanie Eaton Harvie has been working professionally in the world of journalism since 1997. She began her career in Dunn, N.C., and served as the editor of the Angier Independent. She has worked for the Fuquay-Varina Independent, Holly Springs Sun, Garner News, Cleveland Post and Apex Herald since 2005. She has learned tips on frugality by being a stay-at-home mom to her two children.

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How to spot and prevent senior financial fraud
by Jim Miller
Jun 19, 2013 | 3643 views | 0 0 comments | 17 17 recommendations | email to a friend | print

Dear Savvy Senior,

Can you offer some tips on protecting seniors from financial scams? My neighbor’s elderly mother was recently swindled out of $10,000 and I want to make sure my own mother is protected.

Troubled Daughter

Dear Troubled,

Financial scams that target the elderly continue to be a big problem in the U.S. In fact, it’s estimated that some 5 million Americans over age 60 are scammed out of roughly 3 billion every year. Here are some tips that can help you spot a scam, and what you can do to protect your mom.

Scam Watching

Spotting a scam or a con artist is not always easy to do. They range from shady financial advisers to slick-talking telemarketers to professional caregivers and relatives who steal from the very people they’re supposed to be looking after.

The most common scams targeting seniors today come in the form of free-lunch seminars selling dubious financial products, tricky/high-pressure telemarketing calls, and endless junk mail peddling free vacation packages, sweepstakes, phony charity fundraisers and more. And, of course, there’s the ongoing problem of identity theft, Medicare fraud, door-to-door scams, credit card theft, and Internet and email scams.

The best way to spot a scam is to help your mom manage her finances, or at least monitor her accounts. Reviewing her financial statements each month can alert you to questionable checks, credit card charges or large withdrawals.

If, however, she doesn’t want you looking at her financial records, there are other clues. For example: Is she getting a lot of junk mail for contests, free trips, and sweepstakes? Is she receiving calls from strangers offering awards or moneymaking deals? Also notice if her spending habits have changed, if she has complained about being short of money lately, or has suddenly become secretive or defensive about her finances. All these may be signs of trouble.

Protect Your Parent

The most effective way to help protect your mom is to alert her to the different kind of scams out there. The easiest way to do this is by visiting the Financial Fraud Enforcement Task Force website (stopfraud.gov – click on “Protect Yourself”), where you can get a rundown on the different types of scams making the rounds these days. The Better Business Bureau Scam Stopper site at bbb.org/scam-stopper is another good resource.

If your mom doesn’t have access to a computer, print out the materials yourself and use them to start a conversation.

It’s also a good idea to keep close tabs on your mom’s social circle. Has she acquired any questionable new friends lately, or is she seeing anyone who’s giving her advice, financial or otherwise?

Some other tips to protect her include reminding her to never give out her Social Security number or financial information unless she initiated the contact and knows the institution.

Also, see if your mom would be willing to let you sort her mail before she opens it so you can weed out the junk. To reduce the junk mail and/or email she gets, use the Direct Marketing Association consumer opt-out service at dmachoice.org. And to stop credit card and insurance offers, use the Consumer Credit Reporting Industry opt-out service at optoutprescreen.com or call 888-567-8688 – they will ask for your mom’s Social Security number and date of birth.

Also, register your mom’s home and cell phone numbers on the National Do Not Call Registry (donotcall.gov, 888-382-1222) to reduce telemarketers. And help her get a free copy of her credit report at annualcreditreport.com to make sure she isn’t a victim of identity theft.

Report It

If you suspect your mom has gotten scammed report it to your state securities regulator’s office (see nasaa.org for contact information), or your state’s Adult Protective Services agency (call 800-677-1116 for contact information) that investigates reports of elderly financial abuse.

Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit SavvySenior.org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author of “The Savvy Senior” book.

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Mr. and Mrs. Charles Jackson of Fuquay-Varina proudly announce the engagement of their son, Corey Edward Jackson, to Emily Elizabeth Hester of Pontotoc, Miss. The bride-elect is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Herb Hester, Jr. of Pontotoc, Miss.

The bridegroom-elect is a 2009 honors graduate of Fuquay-Varina High School and a current student at Lenoir-Rhyne University, where he is studying history.

Miss Hester is a 2006 special honors graduate of Pontotoc High School and a 2010 Magna Cum Laude graduate of Lenoir-Rhyne University with a Bachelor’s Degree in religious studies. She is a 2013 graduate of Lenoir-Rhyne University with a Master of Arts in counseling.

The couple will wed June 22, 2013 at Castle Hill in Oxford, Miss., at 7:30 p.m.

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